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Lucy, this is so timely for me. My next engagement is to facilitate a long-term decision-making process with NGO leaders. I am definitely vulnerable to the pitfalls of leading with my ego. In the past, I've found "proving my expertise" so tempting among groups that, in introductory and surface-level dealings, appear to undercount my credibility in accompanying them. I agree with you that succumbing to that temptation does not serve me or the group in the long run. As you mention, it can hit the wrong note. Also, it can simply broadcast insecurity, whereas demonstrating comfort with silence and simple, probing questions demonstrates confidence.

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